{"id":375,"date":"2019-02-26T01:19:02","date_gmt":"2019-02-26T01:19:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sextingfriends.com\/blog\/?p=375"},"modified":"2019-02-18T18:08:31","modified_gmt":"2019-02-18T18:08:31","slug":"how-to-ghost-your-sext-buddy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sextingfriends.com\/blog\/how-to-ghost-your-sext-buddy\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Ghost Your Sext Buddy Like A Boss"},"content":{"rendered":"

Most people consider ghosting to be an immature move<\/a>. You\u2019re considered a pretty big jerk if you try to pull it off, and if word gets around, you\u2019ll be hard pressed to find a date. It is easier and safer to just end it quick, like pulling off a bandage. Unfortunately, circumstances do not always allow for the simple solutions in life. Every now and again, you will entertain a sex buddy relationship that turns weird. You thought she was thoroughly vetted and knew the rules of the game but suddenly she\u2019s like a whole new person. She\u2019s calling your home phone and showing up at your work. Talking to her hasn\u2019t worked. Now she\u2019s threatening even scarier actions. You are going to have to ghost her. Ghosting is much more than just ignoring a few text messages. Many people think ghosting is a new thing when in fact it has been going on for centuries. It takes commitment. Follow these tips to learn how to ghost like a boss.<\/p>\n

Be Confident in Your Decision When You Ghost Your Sext Buddy<\/h3>\n

There must be absolutely no doubt that you no longer want this person in your life. Ghosting<\/a> is not something you can come back from. Once you have treated someone with such disrespect, they will no longer want any connection to you. Not even the sincerest of apologies will help. Things will never be the same. Make sure this is an action you are willing to take before you make any other moves.<\/p>\n

Start Slow. Don\u2019t Jump the Gun When You Ghost Your Sext Buddy<\/h3>\n

To someone who has been ghosted, it feels like it happens all of a sudden. In truth, it is a slower process. Abruptly cutting off all communication with someone makes them anxious and worried. She may think something has happened to you or you need help. To successfully ghost someone, you have to work up to it.<\/p>\n

The Details Go First When You Ghost Your Sext Buddy<\/h3>\n

Begin distancing yourself by first omitting details from conversations. Just the facts. Don\u2019t elaborate. Stop asking questions. Don\u2019t do any of the things you\u2019d normally do to spark a conversation. You can still be friendly, flirty even. But each conversation should be less convivial than the last. Keep your answers short and concise without any narrative or opinion. This slow and deliberate distancing also makes it easier for her to accept when contact stops completely.<\/p>\n

Take it One Social Media Platform at a Time When You Ghost Your Sext Buddy<\/h3>\n

Part of ghosting is blocking her on social media<\/a>. Start with something you don\u2019t use very often so your presence isn\u2019t 100% expected. Stop responding to tags from her. Don\u2019t answer DMs. Eventually, block her and move on to the next social media platform. Whether it is Facebook or Instagram or Twitter, begin the same way. Stop responding to tags and DMs. Don\u2019t comment on direct posts. Put her on a specific list that gets only a few posts and tell her you\u2019ve been too busy for social media lately. Eventually, block her.<\/p>\n

Stop Calls and Texts When You Ghost Your Sext Buddy<\/h3>\n

Answer only about a third of the calls and texts you get from her for about a week. The next week only answer once or twice. After that you should block her number. When you do answer, make the replies short and concise. You don\u2019t have to be rude here either. Just short. Don\u2019t offer any extraneous information and then make a quick goodbye.<\/p>\n


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